Humility over pride brings grace

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6 NLT) 

When you’re self proud, watch out!

We usually think of pride as good thing, but God does not when it’s about self pride as in being self righteousness or conceited, which is the opposite of humility. Self pride puffs up a person and humility does not. Self pride is the sin that entered Satan and got him cast out of heaven. There is a difference between the kind of pride that God hates (Proverbs 8:13) and the kind of pride we can feel about a job well done (Galatians 6:4) or the kind of pride we express over the accomplishment of loved ones (2 Corinthians 7:4). The kind of pride that stems from self-righteousness or conceit is sin, and God hates it because it is a hindrance to seeking Him.

Pride vs humility

  • Pride precedes destruction

“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Prov. 16:18 ESV) 

  • Pride precedes disgrace

“When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with the humble is wisdom.” (Prov. 11:2 ESV) 

  • Humility precedes honor

“Fear of the LORD teaches wisdom; humility precedes honor.” (Prov. 15:33 ESV)

  • Humility precedes exaltation

“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.” (James 4:10 ESV)

Therefore

“Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.” (Rom. 12:16 ESV)

“Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.” (Prov. 27:2 ESV)

Quote

“Humility says you can learn from anyone. You don’t know it all. No one does! That’s why we need to remain teachable, humble, and lifelong learners.” - Rick Warren