Quarrelsome people are everywhere!

“A quarrelsome person starts fights as easily as hot embers light charcoal or fire lights wood.” (Prov. 26:21 NLT)

When confronted by a quarrelsome person

Quarrelsome people are everywhere—quick to argue, stir up trouble, and create strife. Spend any time on social media platforms, and you’ll inevitably encounter argumentative individuals who speak without filters or restraint. If you respond, you’ll likely receive even more hostility in return.

The best response?

The Bible says to give no response at all to foolish arguments. Engaging with them only draws you into their conflict and risks making you just like them.

“Don’t answer the foolish arguments of fools, or you will become as foolish as they are.” (Prov. 26:4 NLT) 

“Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he will despise the good sense of your words.” (Prov. 23:9 ESV) 

“A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.” (Prov. 29:11 ESV)

Stay away from argumentative people

“Stay away from those who have foolish arguments and talk about useless family histories and argue and quarrel about the law. Those things are worth nothing and will not help anyone” (Titus 3:9 NCV).

“A wicked person listens to deceitful lips; a liar pays attention to a destructive tongue.” (Prov. 17:4 NIV)

Therefore

“Do all things without grumbling or questioning…” (Phil. 2:14 ESV)

“Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.” (Titus 3:1-2 ESV)

“Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.” (Prov. 19:11 ESV) 

Quote

“One day, we’re going to give an account of every word we used on the Internet or our phones. That ought to give anyone pause before they post anything.” – Rick Warren