When you face controversies and strife

“But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and strife and disputes about the Law, for they are unprofitable and worthless.” (Titus 3:9 ESV)

Avoid Foolish Arguments and Strife

Even in the early church, people found plenty of things to argue about. Two of the major issues were genealogies and disputes over the Law. Paul warned believers to avoid such foolish controversies because they were “unprofitable and worthless.”

Not much has changed over the centuries. Today, people still argue over countless issues, many of which accomplish nothing except creating division and bitterness. Social media has only amplified the problem, making it easy to become entangled in heated debates that produce more anger than understanding.

As followers of Christ, we are called to be known for our love, humility, and gentleness—not for winning arguments. Before entering a debate, ask yourself, “Will this glorify Christ? Will it build someone up? Will it help bring a person closer to God?” If the answer is no, it is usually wiser to remain silent and walk away.

Be on Guard

“O Timothy, guard what has been entrusted to you, avoiding worldly and empty chatter and the opposing arguments of what is falsely called ‘knowledge.’” (1 Tim. 6:20 NASB)

Refuse Foolish Speculations

“But refuse foolish and ignorant speculations, knowing that they produce quarrels.” (2 Tim. 2:23 NASB)

Turn Away from Those Who Cause Division

“Now I urge you, brethren, keep your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them.” (Rom. 16:17 NASB)

Avoid Empty Chatter

“But avoid worldly and empty chatter, for it will lead to further ungodliness.” (2 Tim. 2:16 NASB)

Therefore

Don’t allow yourself to be drawn into arguments that accomplish nothing for God’s kingdom. Instead, pursue the qualities that reflect Christ. There are times to defend the truth, but there is never a time to be quarrelsome. Let your words bring peace, grace, and wisdom to every conversation.

“But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.” (1 Tim. 6:11 NASB)

“It is honorable to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.” (Prov. 20:3 NKJV)

Quote

“Blessed are the peacemakers, and one sure way of peacemaking is to let the fire of contention alone. Neither fan it, nor stir it, nor add fuel to it, but let it go out by itself. Begin your ministry with one blind eye and one deaf ear.” — Charles Spurgeon